Wordless Wednesday: Pride “Rock” March 18, 2015Posted by mareserinitatis in pets, photography.
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My Mom, the research advisor March 8, 2015Posted by mareserinitatis in science, science fiction, younger son.
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Do you ever have conversations with your kids where you think, afterwards, something along the lines of, “I can’t believe we had this conversation?”
The younger son wants to breed dinosaurs…or at least generate dinosaurs from recovered dinosaur DNA. He asked me if it was possible to do that, and I told him that I think, at this point, they can only generate an organism if they have a living cell. Since he had recently made a plant cell out of perler beads for a class project, I figured he’d be able to understand a little bit about it.
I explained how they cloned Dolly the Sheep by putting a nucleus from an adult cell into a fertilized egg which became a sheep that was genetically identical to the adult sheep. Younger son asked if there was any way to insert dinosaur DNA into the nucleus of another cell, and I told him that while it sounds like a cool idea, I didn’t think it would work unless the DNA came from a living cell.
He seemed genuinely disappointed at that point, so I mentioned that maybe there were people doing research into that sort of thing and that he could maybe do it himself someday.
That apparently was the right thing to say because he started planning out what things he would need for a lab full of full-grown dinosaurs (including wide-open spaces with lots of trees for the brachiosaurs). He mentioned that he’d start with plant-eaters, but maybe after a couple decades, move into meat eaters like t-rex. I suggested he may want to read the book “Jurassic Park.”
After a bit, he said he seemed awfully young to be planning this stuff out, but that’s okay because he has time to work on it. Then he gave me a hug and told me that he’d let me know if he managed to clone some dinosaurs. I’m pretty sure that if he pulls that off, I would be hearing about it, one way or another. Still, I’m glad he thinks it’s important to let his mom know…
Wordless Wednesday: There is no Macrocat, only Zuul February 25, 2015Posted by mareserinitatis in pets, photography.
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Partial perfectionism February 19, 2015Posted by mareserinitatis in family, teaching, younger son.
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The younger son had forgotten a text book which he needed to do an assignment, so I told him that he should get done what he could and try to finish it up in the morning.
But mom…she doesn’t accept work unless it’s completely done.
She may not, I told him, but your future teachers probably will, so it’s a good habit. At least she’ll see you made some effort on it.
There were several classes I’ve had throughout college where I didn’t complete the entire assignment. Frankly, sometimes I just couldn’t. Or maybe I was short on time. However, handing in 8 out of 9 problems, even if it didn’t earn me a perfect grade, certainly earned me enough to get a very high grade in almost all of my classes.
I really don’t like this policy of “it has to be completely done, and I won’t accept anything late.” I totally get not accepting anything late, but I think the “completely done” thing is bunk. I would rather a student put it in a thoughtful, partial attempt than not do anything at all. The feedback I would provide as a teacher may be helpful to the student, too.
The notion of “all or nothing” feeds into perfectionism, particularly the kind that leads to paralysis and lack of motivation. “It’s not worth it to do anything if she won’t accept incomplete work,” is the kind of mindset I grew up with. Now that I teach, I know that every effort you make on your homework or on learning something will not be wasted effort. Few people ever get any topic 100%, but putting in time and effort will get you closer.
I would always tell my students to put the best effort you can into your homework and then go to the teacher for help on the rest. Teachers would rather see an effort or an attempt to solve something rather than a student who shows up empty-handed and saying, “I don’t understand.” It’s very hard to understand how to help the student unless you can see where they’re struggling.
This is a good life skill to have, too. Is it better to wait to clean the kitchen fully or should you at least take 10 minutes to do what you can? Personally, I try to do what I can because I seldom have blocks of time to allow me to do things with the full depth and effort I would like. You can make progress doing it a bit at a time. It’ll never be as fast as you want, but it’s better to keep doing it than forget it because you can’t do it ‘right’. Once it’s done, it doesn’t always matter how quickly you did it.
It also dissuades people from trying new things. “Oh gee…I can’t cook crepes perfectly the first time out, so there’s really no point in trying.” Honestly, a mangled crepe is almost always better than no crepe at all. More importantly, you’ll learn from the experience.
I am therefore doing my best to teach my son that some effort is far better than no effort. There are few things in life that we can do as well and fully as we like, so I want to disavow him of the notion of “all or nothing” right away.
Wordless Wednesday: You’re not going to eat all of that, are you? February 18, 2015Posted by mareserinitatis in pets, photography.
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Wordless Wednesday: Where’s dinner? January 21, 2015Posted by mareserinitatis in pets, photography.
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Wordless Wednesday: Away from my treasure, ya scurvy two-legged land lubbers! (or cats laying on things) January 14, 2015Posted by mareserinitatis in pets, photography.
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New Year’s Goals: The 2015 FCIWYPSC edition January 1, 2015Posted by mareserinitatis in career, family, grad school, personal, religion, research, running, work, writing.
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I’m not doing resolutions and haven’t done them for a while. Goals, however, are another story, particularly when they’re of the quantifiable type. While some of these are large goals (like with running), I break them down to weekly and daily goals, as well.
Writing this out is helpful because not only does it provide me with some accountability, it helped me realize I was bogging myself down with too much. I had to cut a few items.
These are the things I think I can manage with some consistency:
- Career/Work: Publish at least one paper and attend at least one conference.
- Career/Dissertation: Set a minimum amount of time to work on my thesis each week, though the weekly total will vary if there’s a holiday involved. (I do some version of this, but I think I need to make my planning a bit more specific.) Also, attend one conference this year.
- Family time: Family play day once per month.
- Marriage: Keep up with the weekly date with the spousal unit.
- Self-care/Religious: Center down (or if you prefer, meditate or pray) for at least ten minutes a day, not necessarily all at once.
- Self-care/Sleep: Stick to a consistent (and early) bed-time at least 4 days per week.
- Self-care/Physical activity: Run or walk 500 miles by the end of October. I did about 200 outdoor miles this year but didn’t keep track of treadmill time at all, so I think this is doable, especially in light of my next goal. I’ve also learned I like to ramp down the activity around the holidays (too much to do), so that amounts to about 11.5 miles per week.
- Fun goal: Do half-marathons in two new states this year. Two down, 48 to go. I’m hoping to cross Wisconsin and Michigan off the list this year. (And I’ve already registered for one of them.)
- Misc/Blog: Post on the blog at least twice per week. (I do that on average, but sometimes there are long gaps in between.)
- Misc/Email: I will keep my main mailbox below 3000 messages. That may sound horrible, but this is 1/5 of what it was just last week. I need to either delete those messages, read them, or unsubscribe from all the spam I’m getting…probably mostly the latter. Lots of unread email makes me overwhelmed.
So do you have any goals for the year?