Book Review: Crazy U April 6, 2011
Posted by mareserinitatis in education, older son.Tags: application process, college, graduation, high school, older son
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I have about 10 books on my nightstand. Looking at them a couple weeks ago, I decided that none of them sounded fun to read. I’d recently read an article on the book Crazy U and thought I’d check it out because I needed something more light-hearted than the physics books and biographies lying there.
For those of you not familiar with the book, it is written by Andrew Ferguson about his son’s experience applying to college. Given my older boy is a teenager and there have been more than a few discussions about college, I thought maybe the book would give me a humorous perspective on the whole experience.
I guess I’m very surprised at how my son is approaching this because it’s very different from what I did. I was the one who chose where to go, did all the leg work on the applications, wrote all my own essays (and can’t even remember if I asked anyone to proof them for me – I may not have), and agonized all through high school about how I would manage to pay for it all. I was blessed with a bit of guidance on the application process from a professor at the university. My parents’ contribution was to pay for an SAT prep course and to fill out my FAFSA, late (that is, after my first choice college had passed the financial aid application deadline). It’s not their fault: neither had college degrees and neither had ever tried to go any place for college except for the state school, which has minimal requirements. They had no idea what it was all about, other than that getting a college degree was important. Given what a big deal it was to me, I’m perplexed by my son. He’s more of the I’ll-worry-about-it-junior-year type. I guess that’s better than waiting until senior year.
Ferguson begins his journey during his son’s junior year, when promotional materials from a couple schools show up. He decides to look into professional counselors for some guidance, and is told he’s started about 3 years too late…or maybe more. His whole perspective is very funny, and his cynicism is refreshing. Reading the book, however, has been a more sobering experience than I thought. Being in grad school with hopes to stay in academia perhaps has given me a very skewed view of the university. The book is written from the perspective of someone who is not in academia and hasn’t been since he left college. When you look at it from the outside in, you kind of realize how ridiculous the whole rat race is.
The book is well researched and informative…and this is what gives rise to the cynicism. By the same token, this person is one who desperately wants his kid to go to college. He talks about several contradictions in what colleges say and what they do, such as how they don’t want to have to market their schools and yet spend tons of money to do so. He talks about US News rankings, getting the perspective of the statistician who supervises all the calculations. He then discusses how schools simultaneously condemn them and yet do a lot to make themselves look better, including changing their data. He talks about how the schools are all similar – similar materials, similar emphasis, similar groups on campus, and even similar tours.
And reading through this, I have realized how ridiculous all of it looks. As a parent, I am thinking that maybe it’s a good thing my son isn’t drinking the kool-aid. This was especially obvious when Ferguson discusses a tour of Harvard, realizing, with all the other parents in the room, that Harvard wants everyone to apply, even if it’s obvious a person doesn’t have a chance…which, realistically, they don’t.
I appreciate a lot of the insight in how parents feel while going through the process. One very memorable discussion is how preparing a kid for college is, in essence, making yourself obsolete. I know this is true of parenting in general, but I wonder how I’ll feel about it once I’m staring it in the face.
Overall, I have really enjoyed the book. I like books that are informative as well as funny, so I consider the different perspectives and information on the process a bonus to the humor. And really, the best perspective I could have is to realize how ridiculous it is…and that maybe waiting until junior year won’t be the travesty I’d feared it could be.
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